Rev. Father Thomas J. Paris
September 16, 1935 – August 8, 2021
It is with sadness, yet with hope in the Resurrection, that the Greek Orthodox Metropolis of San Francisco announces the passing of Rev. Father Thomas J. Paris on Sunday, August 8, 2021. Father Tom served at the Ascension Greek Orthodox Cathedral in Oakland, CA from 1971 – 2009, and cultivated one of the largest and most dynamic communities in the Metropolis.
“Father Tom was an extraordinary clergyman, whose vibrant personality and love for Christ emanated through his distinguished priesthood” stated His Eminence Metropolitan Gerasimos. “The impact of Father Tom’s ministry on so many people is difficult to encapsulate into words, but much better depicted through actions. This was a hallmark of his ministry, for he lived the Gospel, he thrived on bringing others to know God’s love, and he was a dynamic and visionary priest who inspired others in their service to the church. The entire Metropolis joins me in praying for the peaceful repose of the Lord’s servant, Father Tom, and for the comfort of his beloved Presvytera Vaso, and their children and grandchildren who are mourning his passing from this earthly life.”
His Eminence Metropolitan Gerasimos of San Francisco will preside at the services for Father Thomas Paris which are scheduled at the Ascension Cathedral (4700 Lincoln Avenue, Oakland, CA) as follows:
Friday, August 13, 2021
4:00 p.m. Visitation
6:00 p.m. Trisagion
Reception immediately following on the Platia at Ascension Cathedral
Saturday, August 14, 2021
7:00 a.m. Orthros
8:00 a.m. Divine Liturgy
10:00 a.m. Funeral
Interment immediately following at Mountain View Cemetery
Makaria to follow at Ascension Cathedral
For those attending in person, please be advised of the current indoor mask mandate required for Alameda County which can be found here. The services for Father Tom will also be livestreamed which can be accessed from the Ascension Cathedral website and Facebook page.
In lieu of flowers, the family is grateful for your support of the Chapel completion to the Fr. Thomas J. Paris Legacy Tribute in his memory. Donations may be offered online at ascensioncathedral.com/frtomparis or mailed to Ascension Cathedral, 4700 Lincoln Avenue, Oakland, CA 94602. Checks should be made payable to “Ascension Cathedral,” please note the “Fr. Paris Tribute.”
May his memory be eternal!
Obituary – Reverend Father Thomas J. Paris
Reverend Father Thomas J. Paris, Dean Emeritus of the Ascension Greek Orthodox Cathedral in Oakland, passed away on August 8, 2021 following a long battle with cancer. Fr. Paris, the son of James and Grace Paris, was born and raised in Chicago, Illinois on September 16, 1935. He served as president of his parish youth group and was the captain of the altar boys. He earned the rank of “life scout” and served as an assistant scoutmaster. He received the Phi Beta Kappa and B’nai B’rith Youth of the Year Awards and was selected for the Chicago Tribune all-city football team.
He graduated from Chicago’s Amundsen High School in 1953. In 1959, he graduated from Holy Cross School of Theology in Brookline, Massachusetts, where he was class president and newspaper and yearbook editor. After graduation he married Vaso Katinas of St. Louis, Missouri and traveled with her to Greece on a honeymoon that lasted two years. There he completed his Licentiate of Theology with honors at the Theological School of the University of Athens and the happy couple was blessed with the birth of their son, James.
Fr. Paris was ordained as a deacon in Athens in August of 1961 and as a priest in Chicago that December. He was assigned to the St. Paul Greek Orthodox Church in Savannah, Georgia where he served almost 10 years. Under his leadership they paid off the church mortgage and purchased five nearby homes for expansion. He was president of the Family Counseling Center and Travelers Aid Society and the Chatham Clergy Conference, the city’s first inter-racial clergy body. He played an important role in the peaceful integration of Savannah.
In August of 1971, Fr. Tom, Presbytera Vaso, and their five children arrived in Oakland, California where he lived and served the Greek Orthodox Cathedral of the Ascension for the next 50 years. Under his leadership the parish was elevated to Cathedral status in 1992 and hosted four Patriarchs as well as two heads of state. The parish was able to liquidate its mortgage and build a large multi-purpose Community Center. The last edition to the master plan for which fundraising is ongoing is the completed parking pavilion and the chapel which still needs to be completed. During his tenure endowment and scholarship funds were established including one in his honor. The parish Summer Camp was founded in 1972. It continues to be a vibrant ministry and has created many bonds and lasting friendships.
Fr. Paris organized the parish Spiritual Renewal Organization, authored six 24-week bible studies and oversaw three bible study groups. He and the parish helped Ethiopian, Bulgarian and Eritrean Orthodox parishes get organized by providing facilities, financial support for their clergy and social services for their members. Fr. Paris helped organize the immensely popular Festival of Greece (which was later renamed the Oakland Greek Festival) along with the highly successful weekly Senior Center Program. He was a champion of the Ascension Cathedral Golf Tournament and took it to a new level. He is recognized annually by “The Father Tom Paris ‘Halfway to Heaven’ Long Drive Contest.” He was a charter member of the Interreligious Council of Oakland which responded so effectively to help alleviate the suffering caused by the Loma Prieta Earthquake and the Oakland Hills Firestorm.
In service to the Greek Orthodox Metropolis of San Francisco Fr. Paris served as Retreat Master, was chairman of the Spiritual Renewal Committee and the Northern California Youth Organization. He also co-founded and led the Senior Camp. He helped form the Northern California Chapter of the International Orthodox Christian Charities. He helped raise $75,000 for Ethiopian famine relief and traveled to visit the Patriarch of Ethiopia to deliver the funds at his own expense. He has served on the board of directors of the Trinity Homes for fifteen years and as president for eight years. He served three years as president of the Brotherhood of St. Nicholas for the St. Nicholas Ranch and Retreat Center. He was chairman of the board and chaplain of the Patriarch Athenagoras Orthodox Institute in Berkeley.
On the national level he served on the Board of Directors of Hellenic College/Holy Cross Greek Orthodox School of Theology. He was a member of the Archdiocesan Council, chairing the Clergy and Clergy Family Committee. It inspired the establishment of a crisis hotline for clergy, their spouses and children providing professional support to prevent clergy burnout and family distress. He also was elected to the National Presbyters Council for eight years and served as its treasurer for four years. Following his retirement in 2009, he served the community of Prophet Elias Greek Orthodox Church in Santa Cruz, California for several months until a permanent priest was appointed.
Fr. Tom will be remembered for his gift of encouragement, his joyful laugh and loving nature. He loved his family and his flock and he was tireless in his efforts to serve others and to do what was pleasing to God. He was present in times of joy and times of sorrow providing the love and support that was needed.
May his memory be eternal!
Fr. Tom is survived by his loving and devoted wife of 61 years, Presbytera Vaso Paris and four children, Fr. James T. Paris (Presbytera Eleni), Maria Delvizis (James), Fr. Paul T. Paris (Presbytera Stephanie) and Connie Paris; He was preceded in death by his son Thomas Nicholas Paris. He was the proud papou of eight grandchildren, Grace Paris, Michael Delvizis, Nicholas Paris, Vasi Paris, Lucas Paris, Sophia Paris, Alexander Delvizis and Thomas G. Paris. Additionally, he is survived by his sister Joanne Julian (David) and host of cousins, nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his sisters, Marie Klink and Helen Christ (Chris).
In lieu of flowers, the family is grateful for your support of the Chapel completion to the Fr. Thomas J. Paris Legacy Tribute in his memory. Donations may be offered online at ascensioncathedral.com/frtomparis or mailed to Ascension Cathedral, 4700 Lincoln Avenue, Oakland, CA 94602. Checks should be made payable to “Ascension Cathedral,” please note the “Fr. Paris Tribute.”